at least other parents r like this.. my mum n dad give me nething n everything.. n so they should i didnt ask to be brought into this world. i earn 500 - 600 a week n my dad still gives me 50 in cash n buys me 100 fags... pays all my credit cards off and my car insurance n even petrol... mum n dads r get lol
dnt understand how sum parents wont help there kids out... when i have kids they will have everything they ever want
wtf?
spoilt little whorebag?
I'd feel guilty if i earnt £600 a week and still took money off my parents.
id feel guilty if i EARNT money an took it off my parents
but we cant all be little mummy n daddys boys/girls can we..
I totallt appreciate everything my parents have ever done for me, i was lucky enough to have a pretty privalaged upbringing, but i realise that and im grateful for it, and any money my parents have ever given me since i started working has always been paid back........th 90 quid my dad is givin me for havin time off work is so that i can actually live, i certainly wont be buying new clothes an makeup or going ravin with the cash that im given, i will be buying food shopping, a travel card and buying my coach ticket home for xmas.
I just thought id clear that up my original post was appreciation for my dad savin my arse not gloating that he was giving mr money!
I totallt appreciate everything my parents have ever done for me, i was lucky enough to have a pretty privalaged upbringing, but i realise that and im grateful for it, and any money my parents have ever given me since i started working has always been paid back........th 90 quid my dad is givin me for havin time off work is so that i can actually live, i certainly wont be buying new clothes an makeup or going ravin with the cash that im given, i will be buying food shopping, a travel card and buying my coach ticket home for xmas.
I just thought id clear that up my original post was appreciation for my dad savin my arse not gloating that he was giving mr money!
i dont think anyones took it the wrong way...
nothing wrong with what happend to you.. its comments like lady libras which seen to have pissed ppl off!!..
@ libra, one of the glaring holes in your philosophy, is that you cant predict the future.
what would you do if you had kids with loads of money and then there was a radical change in circumstances for you or there was a massive recession or something
To say that you should only have kids if you can spoil them is odd. Something like 50% of the world live on a dollar a day, or less. Should they not have kids?
How are these kids gonna cope if there is a major change in society in the next 50 years. Imagine being next to em in the trenches
what would you do if you had kids with loads of money and then there was a radical change in circumstances for you or there was a massive recession or something
what would you do if you had kids with loads of money and then there was a radical change in circumstances for you or there was a massive recession or something
I somehow doubt she knows what a recession is lol
"itz when a man goes bald on partz of his headz innit, then you has a recession
I would never bring kids into the world if i thought they might get one when they woz older, its too cruel"
Haven't got involved in this thread so far cos anything I would have said has already been said much better by Scheme and others.
One thing I would say is that you're not truly a 'grown up' until you're living self sufficient, independent and doing your own thing. If you're taking any kind of handout from anywhere for whatever reason - then you won't feel the pride and satisfaction that comes from knowing that you're living independently and deserve everything that you have because you've earnt and worked for it.
People blagging benefits or dole are bad enough, but if you're systematically draining large amounts of money (that you dont even need) off the people you love on a monthly basis it must be hard to look yourself in the mirror.
at least other parents r like this.. my mum n dad give me nething n everything.. n so they should i didnt ask to be brought into this world. i earn 500 - 600 a week n my dad still gives me 50 in cash n buys me 100 fags... pays all my credit cards off and my car insurance n even petrol... mum n dads r get lol
dnt understand how sum parents wont help there kids out... when i have kids they will have everything they ever want
because they end up like spoilt little cunts perhaps?
my dad is minted, yet i'm on the fucking grind out here...out of work at the mo and i'm living off mixtapes sales
altho i hate him for it, i'm glad he does it i'd hate to be a stuck up spoilt cunt like the ones u see in chislehurst/bromley
Totally agreed. This isn't a random post of hatred towards libra as normal, but I seriously mean this. I think your parents are obviously to blame for how you have ended up. Buying you fags as well, jesus. That's fucking awful. What kind of parent does that? Shame on them. I can't cuss you anymore for being you, because it's not really your fault . Spoiling on that level is obviously going to breed a deluded yat.
One would have thought they could have taught you how to spell as well instead of teaching you how to smoke fags.
On a lighter note, I hope you are well Cheeky, not nice being in Hossy. All the best.
< Message edited by horrid -- 10/12/2006 4:08:29 PM >
people who work and still get hand outs off there parents are UTTER UTTER CUNTS, usually these people are tight as well....these people will get a shock when they move out and have to pay there own way.....these cunts think there great with there new garms, car, gold credit card daddy pays off etc, but usually they have fuckin shit jobs are brain dead cunts that are walking around in new gear mumy paid for.... everything i have is MYN and paid for by ME coz i work hard, u low life unemployed scum and Twats who only earn a few quid go get a fuckin proper job u might feel better about ur shit pathetic insecure lifes
LOL @ Libra - you sound well spoilt, if I was earning 600 quid a week my parents wouldn't be treating me like that.
The only thing in my room that I didn't buy was my computer which I got instead of driving lessons before I went off to university. They also sort me out with university course fees but thats where it ends. I have to pay for my own rent and food, everything other then that. They are there if I need bailing out but I don't like doing it, feel like I should be standing on my own two feet and learning from my mistakes. End of the day my parents are rich enough that they could probs afford to buy me a car and pay all my tuition/rent fees but they don't because they want me to have a sense of the value or money and not be a spoilt little cunt, which is something you seem to be lacking libra...
ORIGINAL: Gavd End of the day my parents are rich enough that they could probs afford to buy me a car and pay all my tuition/rent fees but they don't because they want me to have a sense of the value or money and not be a spoilt little cunt, which is something you seem to be lacking libra...
Thats nice of your dad, helping you in your time of need which is what parents are there for. I don't agree with over spoiling kids tho, spoiling them within reason is ok otherwise it teaches them they'll get whatever they want no matter what and they'll just be brats. I'm teaching mine manners and morals, If they're naughty they dont get anything. I want to teach them the value of money too, I think that's because we didn't have alot of money growing up and I've worked hard since I left school and am proud of what i've achieved and the fact that everything I own is because I worked hard for it. My mum has helped me out of tight spots in the past though.
LOL so Libra you can earn up to £4000 in a month yet you STILL accept money from your dad? Don't you want independance? If I were in your position id insist he didn't give me anything unless I was in need. Your attitude is laughable.
My mum and dad will give me anything I ask for but I don't just accept everything.
< Message edited by Keeno -- 3/8/2009 7:35:28 PM >
Im off work atm, only for a couple days but im on a temp-to-perm thing so i dont get any sick pay so will lose out on about 90 quid or summit next week
I spoke to my dad after comin out of hospital last nite and he said that he would work out how much money im losing out on and out it into my acc next week on the day that i get paid
think yaself all lucky you got parents to help you out some people aitn so lucky libra you really should refuse that 50 pound and fags etc you earn more than enuff to provide for yourself
Helping out in emergencies is one thing, just getting random cash of your parents is another and is pretty selfish imo.
wouldn't you rather they spent there disposable income on themselves?
She didn't ask for it.
If your parent is happy to give you money just because they want to, then let them.
If my parents did that i would tell them not to, IMO they have done so much for me during my life that now i am an adult if anything i should be treating them to stuff.
If i am really stuck and need a lend or whatever then yes i will ask them and they will help me out, however i will always pay them back and get my mum some flowers or my dad a bottle of plonk or something as a thank you.
my reaction is mainly aimed at libra's statement that people who are not prepared to spol there children shouldn't have them rather than the original post which is more or less fair enough.
thats bang on mate, pretty much the way i am really. my mums a single parent and she worked her fucking arse off to make sure me and my little brother never went without, i try not to ask her for money because i feel guilty after she's done so much for me and never said a word or expected a thank you. (i think i need to give her a ring to say "i love you" tbh) lol
i've never heard anyone talk as much bollocks as lady libra though (no offence) if you're saying that people who don't earn as much as you and your parents shouldn't have kids. you say you run your own business and blah blah blah £4000 a month blah blah blah, i'd never bring kids into the world if i knew they'd grow up to be spoilt little children even at the age of 22. i'd think i'd gone seriously wrong as a parent
on a lighter note to end my marathon post, large up cheeky's dad and i hope you feel better now. i know just how much £90 is missed, and it's nice you've got someone to bail you out of a near-crisis
People who think that money makes a happy child are stupid.
Kids don't need anything but love, guidance and a good role model.
Hardships come and go, but that is life for the majority of us, what makes the difference is how you deal with hardship cause it comes to most of us in varying forms sooner or later. (and fuck libra, I hope it doesnt come to you and your dad at the same time, cause you'll be fucked!)
nail on head
that is all.
indeed. i intend to make sure my boy can stand on his own two feet and cope with the shit life sometimes throws at you
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